Sometimes we wonder....
Is it actually a big deal? Or am I making it a big deal? Am I the problem? What is the use of
talking about it? Nothing is going to change..... These are the times a counsellor can be of
there is someone to share your thoughts and worries, who is trustworthy, non-judgemental and
empathic, I believe you can find your way forward. Sometimes it can be enough to talk to our
ones, but sometimes it feels too silly or too complicated, even to yourself. Maybe you are
with all the pressures very well on the surface, but you know that you are struggling on the
That’s where my role comes in. I don’t believe in advising because I believe you are the expert
your life and if anybody can find solutions to your problems, it will be you. We all have the
Why don’t I give advice? You know that feeling of “why can’t I just do what other people say” or
did what everybody said but it still doesn’t feel right.” Only when it comes from within you
answer be right and feel right.
“It is the client who knows what hurts, what direction to go, what
problems are crucial,
experiences have been deeply buried.”Carl Rogers -Father of Person-centred